{"product_id":"vragen-22990-hallo-ik-ben-een-gescheiden-man-die-aardig-verdien-zoon-35-000-euro-in-het-jaar-dus-ik-krijg-geen","title":"Alimony questions? Get free advice!","description":"\u003ch4\u003e Questioner\u003c\/h4\u003e\n\n Hello\n \nI am a divorced man who earns a decent son 35,000 euros a year. So I don't get a lawyer of inability. I have a daughter of 4 years who is with me every other weekend. I have a new love and together with her a baby of 6 months we are not married but we do live together. She has a son of 5 years and he goes after his father every other weekend. She also works herself and together we have a joint income of 55,000 euros.\n I have to pay my daughter 250 euros a month in child support and also 100 euros in partner support. My girlfriend does not get any support because her ex refuses to pay it.\n Now I think that given our joint income that I pay a lot of alimony for my daughter and we can no longer pay this. But we also have no money left to pay the lawyer. Because we still have the debts from my house that I had to sell and also have the debts of my girlfriend from her ex. \nWhat can I do in this situation now that I can no longer pay a lawyer to have the alimony recalculated, but I also no longer have any money to pay the alimony?\n\n\u003ch4\u003e Lawyer\u003c\/h4\u003e\n\n The child support - and spousal support - that you pay are based on your ability to pay. That ability to pay only increases if you start living together, because then you can share the housing costs.\n\n Voluntary changes that affect the level of your income, such as the birth of a child and caring for your partner and her son, generally have no effect on your ability to pay.\n\n The fact that your new partner does not receive child support from her ex-partner does not affect your ability to pay. This is a matter between her and her previous partner.\n\n I therefore think that a new load-bearing capacity calculation will not benefit you much, but you can always try.\n \nNot paying child support is definitely not an option, then you will definitely get the LBIO after you and you run the risk of wage garnishment. The costs of the collection, which are considerable, are at your expense.\n\n\u003ch4\u003e Lawyer\u003c\/h4\u003e\n\n Good afternoon,\n\n Mostly agree, with the caveat that your joint child must be included in the calculation of maintenance capacity. For your partner's child, this only applies if you become a stepfather, i.e. if you marry your partner. The maintenance obligation for children takes precedence over spousal maintenance. The capacity to pay must be divided among all your children. See e.g. https:\/\/www.jurofoon.nl\/nieuws\/3945-alimentatie-33-het-nieuwe-gezin-van-vader\n\n Because you can share your housing costs, it may well be that you do not have to pay less in the end. You can have an alimony calculation made at the LBIO for 50 euros, see http:\/\/www.lbio.nl\/berekenen-van-alimentatie\n\n","brand":"Rechtswinkel.nl","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":55015434551645,"sku":"","price":0.0,"currency_code":"EUR","in_stock":true}],"url":"https:\/\/www.rechtswinkel.nl\/en\/products\/vragen-22990-hallo-ik-ben-een-gescheiden-man-die-aardig-verdien-zoon-35-000-euro-in-het-jaar-dus-ik-krijg-geen","provider":"Rechtswinkel.nl","version":"1.0","type":"link"}