{"product_id":"vragen-29936-mijn-partner-en-ik-zijn-uit-elkaar-ik-ben-zwanger-23-weken-het-gekochte-huis-waar-hij-nog-in-leeft","title":"Legal Assistance with Divorce and Child Care","description":"\u003ch4\u003e Questioner\u003c\/h4\u003e\n\n My partner and I are separated, I am 23 weeks pregnant.\n The purchased house that he still lives in and that we just bought since August 2014 will have to be sold.\n How do I approach this?\n We are not married and do not have a registered partnership.\n He is German and I am Dutch. The house is in both names. We will remain connected by our child who will be born in March 2015.\n He has acknowledged the fruit but what do I owe him regarding the little one?\n By the way, we don't live on friendly terms and he is now threatening to stop paying the mortgage, even though he knows that I can't keep the house and can't pay it from my salary either.\n By the way, is he now obliged to pay for the purchase of baby supplies?\n At the moment I am living with my parents again.....\n\n\u003ch4\u003e Lawyer\u003c\/h4\u003e \nYou are now both the owner of the house and also jointly and severally (i.e. 100%) liable for the repayment of the mortgage debt. If one of you does not pay, the mortgage lender will call on the other owner. If that person does not pay either, the house will eventually be auctioned. Any residual debt is also jointly and severally.\n\n The wisest thing in your situation seems to me to try to sell the house as soon as possible. If your ex-partner refuses to cooperate with the sale, the judge can give substitute permission for the sale.\n\n The obligation to contribute to the care and upbringing of the child only arises after birth. After that, you will either have to make written agreements yourself based on your mutual ability to pay (you can go to the LBIO for a calculation of this if your ex-partner cooperates) or ask the court to determine child support.\n \nAfter the birth, the father has a right of access. Again, you have to solve this together. If that does not work, the father can ask the judge to establish a visitation arrangement.\n\n For the legal procedures you need the help of a lawyer. You may be eligible for subsidized legal aid. For this you can contact one of the lawyers on this website, a legal aid shop or law shop in your area or Het Juridisch Loket (0900 8020) or: http:\/\/www.juridischloket.nl\/Pages\/default.asp\n\n\u003ch4\u003e Lawyer\u003c\/h4\u003e\n\n Have you lived in Germany or in the Netherlands? I think this issue depends on whether German or Dutch law applies.\n\n","brand":"Rechtswinkel.nl","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":55014503743837,"sku":"","price":0.0,"currency_code":"EUR","in_stock":true}],"url":"https:\/\/www.rechtswinkel.nl\/en\/products\/vragen-29936-mijn-partner-en-ik-zijn-uit-elkaar-ik-ben-zwanger-23-weken-het-gekochte-huis-waar-hij-nog-in-leeft","provider":"Rechtswinkel.nl","version":"1.0","type":"link"}