What is the easiest way to change a visitation arrangement?

Questioner

My partner would like to change the arrangement for our son. We currently have joint custody. In consultation, we have reached an agreement on a change in this. The intention is that our son will be registered with me and that there will be a contact arrangement for the mother, every other weekend and one day a week. This is partly because I have moved and the distance has become greater. There are also other factors at play. Now it is the case that we have agreed on everything together and that we want to arrange everything properly legally. My question is how we can best do this so that it can proceed quickly and smoothly.

Lawyer

If you and your partner agree on the new contact arrangement, you can adjust it on your own initiative. In principle, you do not have to do this via the court. You can record a modified contact arrangement in writing and both sign it. This way you have proof that you both agree to the new arrangement. However, it is highly recommended that you have the new agreement ratified by the judge. This will make the agreement official and legally binding, and you will not have any problems in the future. If both parties agree, this can be a very simple process. To do this correctly, you can file a request with the court to change the visitation arrangement with the help of a lawyer or mediator. You both then sign the petition. A parenting plan must also be sent with this petition in which the new agreements are included. In addition, you must be able to demonstrate that you have put the interests of your child first when making these new agreements. The lawyer or mediator will then send the petition to the court. The judge will assess whether the request is reasonable and in the best interests of your child, and can then approve the request. From that moment on, the new contact arrangement is officially recorded and binding. Although this procedure involves costs, especially if a lawyer or mediator is involved, it does provide the most certainty. Your agreements are then clear and legally binding, which can prevent conflicts in the future. So while it is possible to change the visitation arrangement on your own initiative, it is advisable to hire a professional and have the change made official through the court. This way you can be sure that you are doing everything correctly and you can prevent any disputes in the future. ' ---------------- Stichting Rechtswinkel.nl is a national organization with students and volunteers. The above advice is based on limited information and may be incomplete or even incorrect for your situation. Always consult a lawyer or attorney for your further steps. Read disclaimer: https://rechtswinkel.nl/disclaimer Can we help you or refer you for free? Call us during office hours on 040 2350423

Lawyer

I'm sorry that you're going through this situation. In the Netherlands, it is indeed true that the deposit should typically be returned at the end of your lease. However, the timeframe in which this must occur is not explicitly specified by law, although 2 weeks to a month is common. The landlord can withhold the deposit if there are unpaid bills, outstanding rent, or damages to the property that are not due to normal wear and tear. If the landlord is planning to withhold some or all of the deposit for these reasons, they should usually provide an itemized list of the deductions. To solve your problem, here are the steps you can take: 1. Reach out to the landlord: Send a reminder in writing (email should suffice) to your landlord, requesting return of your deposit. Make sure to keep a copy of this correspondence. 2. Send a letter of demand: If the landlord does not respond or refuses to return the deposit, the next step is to send a registered letter demanding the return of the deposit within a reasonable period, for example, 14 days. This letter could help you if you decide to take legal action. 3. Take the matter to court: If the landlord still does not return the deposit, you may need to consider taking legal action. This can be a small claims procedure if the amount is under €25,000. Keep in mind that the process can be time-consuming and may come with additional costs, such as court fees. Before you decide on this step, it might be beneficial to get in touch with a legal professional for expert advice. Please note: This advice is based on general principles of Dutch law and is intended as a starting point for familiarizing yourself with your situation. Specific advice should be sought from a legal specialist.' ---------------- Stichting Rechtswinkel.nl is a national organization with students and volunteers. The above advice is based on limited information and may be incomplete or even incorrect for your situation. Always consult a lawyer or attorney for your next steps. Read disclaimer :https://rechtswinkel.nl/disclaimer