{"product_id":"vragen-9471-mijn-zoontjes-van-8-en-11-jaar-zijn-bang-voor-hun-vader-vader-spreekt-al-jaren-samen-met-zijn","title":"Legal help for parents in difficult situations","description":"\u003ch4\u003e Questioner\u003c\/h4\u003e\n\n My 8- and 11-year-old sons are afraid of their father. For years, my father, along with his current girlfriend, has been expressing his displeasure with me to the children. This is becoming increasingly difficult for the children, but they're afraid to say so. Communication between their father and me is no longer possible in a normal way. My father completely disregards our sons' wishes and needs. My youngest is now forced to celebrate his birthday with my father, but he refuses. Can I just keep them home now, because the situation is threatening to spiral out of control? I'm at my wits' end.\n\u003ch4\u003e Questioner\u003c\/h4\u003e \nI don't know if there's a contact arrangement in place, perhaps one established by the court, but if your ex doesn't adhere to the agreements or endangers the children's interests, you can suspend contact and request a change to the arrangement from the court. You will need a lawyer for this. You can find one through the legal aid office (0900-8020), or you can use the direct contact button.\n","brand":"Rechtswinkel.nl","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":56302099923293,"sku":"","price":0.0,"currency_code":"EUR","in_stock":true}],"url":"https:\/\/www.rechtswinkel.nl\/en\/products\/vragen-9471-mijn-zoontjes-van-8-en-11-jaar-zijn-bang-voor-hun-vader-vader-spreekt-al-jaren-samen-met-zijn","provider":"Rechtswinkel.nl","version":"1.0","type":"link"}