Are you facing a legal dispute and unsure whether to engage a lawyer or a mediator ? This is an important decision that impacts the costs, the duration of the process, and the likelihood of a satisfactory resolution.

Whether it's a divorce, an employment dispute, or a business dispute, the right approach can save you a lot of stress and money. In this article, we explain when it's best to consult a lawyer and when mediation is the best solution.


What is the difference between a lawyer and a mediator?

The role of a lawyer

A lawyer represents your interests and takes a legal position. This means that a lawyer:

  • Defending your interests in a legal dispute.
  • Litigate in court , if necessary.
  • Negotiates with the other party on your behalf.
  • Provides legal advice on legislation and regulations.

A lawyer is needed if your conflict cannot be resolved through consultation and a judge must make a binding decision.

The role of a mediator

A mediator is an independent facilitator who helps both parties reach a solution together. A mediator:

  • Does not take a position , but guides the conversation.
  • Stimulates communication between the parties.
  • Helps in finding a joint solution , without judicial intervention.
  • Is faster and cheaper than legal proceedings.

Mediation works well when both parties are willing to find a solution together.


When do you choose a lawyer?

A lawyer is the best choice if:

  • The conflict has escalated too far and consultation is no longer possible.
  • This is a complex legal issue.
  • You are dealing with a conflict where the other party is not willing to compromise.
  • A court ruling is needed to resolve the conflict.

Examples of situations where you need a lawyer:

✔ An employer who wants to dismiss you unfairly.
✔ A divorce in which you and your ex-partner cannot reach an agreement.
✔ A company that fails to meet its contractual obligations.
✔ A neighborhood dispute that requires legal action.


When do you choose a mediator?

Mediation is a better option if:

  • You and the other party are willing to talk together.
  • The conflict can be resolved without a lawsuit.
  • You want to reach a solution faster and cheaper.
  • The relationship with the other party is important (for example in the case of a divorce or an employment dispute).

Examples of situations in which mediation is suitable:

✔ A divorce in which both partners want to make agreements in good consultation.
✔ An employment conflict between employee and employer.
✔ A business discussion where both parties want to maintain the cooperation.
✔ A neighborhood dispute where the relationship must remain good.

Please note: Mediation is only useful if both parties voluntarily want to participate.


Cost: What is cheaper?

Mediation is usually cheaper than legal proceedings with a lawyer.

  • Mediation : You share the costs with the other party. The total cost ranges from €150 to €250 per hour.
  • Lawyer : You usually pay an hourly rate of €175 to €300 or more. Litigation entails additional costs.

In some cases you may be able to receive subsidized legal aid , depending on your income and assets.


Combination of lawyer and mediator

Sometimes it's possible to try mediation first and, if that doesn't work, hire a lawyer. This is often done in divorces and employment disputes.

A lawyer can also advise you on mediation and check whether a settlement is legally sound.


How do you choose the right professional?

  • Consider the other party's willingness : Is there room for negotiation? Then choose mediation. Is negotiation impossible? Then a lawyer is better.
  • Determine the complexity of your case : Simple conflicts can often be resolved through mediation, while complex legal issues require a lawyer.
  • Compare costs : Mediation is often cheaper and faster.
  • Think long-term : If you're still in contact with the other party after the conflict, mediation is often the best option.

Conclusion

  • Choose a lawyer if the conflict has escalated too far or if a court ruling is required.
  • Choose a mediator if you want to resolve the conflict amicably and save costs.
  • Consider a combination : First try mediation and, if that doesn't work, hire a lawyer.

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