Entering into a cohabitation agreement with a foreign partner while married in the Netherlands entails legal and practical complications. Dutch law has strict rules regarding marriage, partnerships, and cohabitation agreements, and these must be carefully followed to avoid problems. In this article, we discuss the possibilities, limitations, and considerations.


What is a cohabitation agreement?

A cohabitation agreement is a written agreement between two people living together, in which agreements are made about matters such as:

  • Distribution of household expenses.
  • Ownership of joint assets.
  • Pension agreements (if applicable).

The contract can be drawn up by a notary and is not the same as a marriage or registered partnership.


Can you enter into a cohabitation agreement if you are married?

Yes, in principle you can enter into a cohabitation agreement while married, but there are important legal restrictions and points to consider:

  1. No bigamy allowed

    • Dutch law does not permit a person to enter into multiple marriages or registered partnerships simultaneously. However, a cohabitation agreement is not a marriage or registered partnership, making this legally possible.
  2. Restrictions from your marriage

    • You are bound by the prenuptial agreement or the statutory community of property from your existing marriage. This can affect joint property and financial agreements with your partner in the cohabitation agreement.
  3. Impact on inheritance and inheritance law

    • Marriage takes precedence in inheritance matters. This means your foreign partner isn't automatically entitled to your estate unless you explicitly provide for this in a will.

Points to consider when entering into a cohabitation agreement

  1. Financial agreements

    • Discuss and record how household expenses are divided and what happens to joint purchases.
    • Consider the financial obligations within your marriage.
  2. Drawing up a will

    • To protect your partner abroad, you may consider making a will. This will specify what your partner inherits.
  3. Legal and fiscal consequences

    • In some cases, cohabitation agreements offer tax advantages, such as alimony deductions or tax breaks. Check with a tax advisor.
  4. Registration with the municipality

    • If your foreign partner lives with you, they must be registered in the Municipal Personal Records Database (BRP). This is important for residence permit matters.
  5. Residence permit of your partner

    • For a foreign partner, a cohabitation agreement can help with applying for a residence permit. The Immigration and Naturalization Service (IND) accepts cohabitation agreements as proof of a lasting relationship.
  6. Involvement of the notary

    • A notary can help you draw up a legally sound cohabitation agreement that takes your specific situation into account.

Possible complications and solutions

  1. Conflicting laws

    • If your foreign partner lives in a country where polygamy or other legal forms are legal, conflicts may arise between Dutch and foreign law. Consult an international lawyer.
  2. Relationship problems within marriage

    • Entering into a cohabitation agreement can be a sensitive issue in your marriage. Discuss this openly with your current partner and consider mediation if conflicts arise.
  3. Influence on any children

    • Consider the impact on joint children, both within your marriage and with your partner abroad. This may have consequences for inheritance law or guardianship.

Conclusion

It's possible to enter into a cohabitation agreement with a foreign partner while married in the Netherlands. However, this requires careful planning and consultation, particularly due to the legal and tax implications. Always consult a notary and, if necessary, an international lawyer to avoid problems and properly protect your interests.