Structure in visiting arrangements for your child

Questioner

I have a toddler son, from a previous marriage. Father is borderline. In the meantime remarried and stable family life. My son's father does not put his son first. There is no structure in the interaction. Son is getting into trouble, sleeps badly and worries about it out loud. I have full custody, but my ex has acknowledged my son. Can I say: either structure or no contact, for the well-being of son? This is what my son is going through.

Lawyer

Because you have full custody, you can adjust the contact arrangements yourself to a level that is regular. If your ex is also unable to do this, it is best to suspend contact completely until agreements can be made with your ex that he will comply with.