Help with legal questions after abuse


Questioner

Hello, I was seriously abused by my child's father. We lived in Germany. The police are handling the case, and a one-month restraining order was issued. I'm back in the Netherlands now, but I have all sorts of questions. In short: My current registration address is still my old one in Haarlem, but I don't live there and I'm not eligible for benefits. I'm temporarily staying in a chalet where I can't register. Can I still get benefits? case - inform the Dutch police? Am I entitled to a lawyer in the Netherlands? Does it make sense to pursue compensation for pain and suffering/expenses? I don't want contact with my ex, but I do need child support and possibly spousal support as long as I'm in these circumstances where I can't work (without a permanent address and childcare).

Questioner

Under these circumstances, you likely won't be able to apply for benefits. You'll need to be registered at an address in the Netherlands. Perhaps you could temporarily register with a third party? Sometimes it's also possible to register at a specific postal address. This could be a social services provider's address, or a municipal address, which is sometimes used for this purpose. If you fear a recurrence of the violence, it might indeed be wise to inform the police in the Netherlands beforehand. Whether you are entitled to a subsidized lawyer in the Netherlands (as I suspect you mean) depends on your income. I understand you don't have this. In principle, this should be possible if the application for legal aid is properly substantiated. If the criminal case is pending in Germany, you may be able to submit a claim for compensation in Germany during the criminal case. Child support and spousal support can be applied for in the Netherlands. You can contact us if you wish.

Questioner

German law largely applies. Therefore, I advise you to hire a German lawyer. They can also represent your interests (alongside the prosecutor) in the criminal case. Legal aid is usually possible in this regard. Whether this is also possible in Germany regarding alimony, etc., also depends on your income. We are happy to assist you.

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