How can I solve this for my mother?


Questioner

My mother is 86 and as a caregiver I take care of her as best I can. My brother (54) still lives at home and has turned the upper floor into a garbage dump. It is so filthy and sad, no words for it. My mother can no longer come upstairs and she sleeps downstairs. I cannot arrange for help with the housework for my mother, no home care if this is necessary. This is because we (my mother and I) are ashamed of the filthy mess upstairs. Furthermore, my mother lets it all happen passively. She is starting to become forgetful. My brother cannot be talked to, he even thinks that I am no longer welcome in 'his' house.

Lawyer

Dear, What an unpleasant situation for you and your mother. Is your brother registered at your mother's home address..? Is there a rental contract or something like that. How long has your brother been living with your mother and does your brother contribute to the rent of the house..? All questions that I have no insight into at the moment. If you wish, for your privacy, you may contact me directly to provide you with further information. Hereby.

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