How can I settle a pension problem with my ex-partner?

Questioner

Divorced in 2010, in the covenant it is stated that we are entitled to ex-partner pension. However, I find out that this is not known to my ex's pension fund, it is stated there that I am eligible for pension when she dies. In this way, she does receive ex-partner pension from me, I do not receive anything from her. How can this be resolved, write her a letter with the request to waive 'my' pension?

Lawyer

This should have been reported to the pension distributor within 2 years, now you have to make sure that you claim it from her when it comes to payment. You can already write to her about this.