My ex-partner does not want to discuss visitation arrangements

Questioner

My ex-partner and I have a 4-year-old daughter. He sees daughter once a week, that's fine, but regarding appointments of vacations or holidays nothing comes out. He absolutely does not want to discuss with a mediator. So it must always be when he wants how he wants and usually 2 days. Last time he went on holiday with our daughter for 2.5 days, without telling us he was off for 10 days and then picked up and dropped off our daughter 3 times in 1 week, which meant we couldn't make any arrangements. We have not been married and I have custody of our daughter. I find this a very stressful situation, I would rather discuss all the holidays once a year. I also think that for the time he spends with our daughter, he pays too little child support, since he doesn't want to spend long holidays with her. My question is: is there a way that I can get a visitation agreement with him? If he does not want to see daughter during his holidays, that is no problem, as long as those 3 days in summer or winter are at least fixed, since he does not want to make agreements. Yours sincerely,

Lawyer

I advise you to find a lawyer specializing in personal and family law. If necessary, he or she can initiate proceedings in court.