How should I respond to a letter from my ex's lawyer?

Questioner

I have always adhered to the judge's ruling. Only last weekend was my birthday and for the first time I dropped out 1 weekend and there were 2 weekends in between. By the way, father had granted my wish about this. And the lawyer wants to make an unclear agreement about connecting holiday weeks with weekends. The ruling does not provide for this. And I don't want to record anything about this either. Furthermore, she asks for a weekend for father because it is his birthday, but father has never approached me about this himself. He can ask me directly without a lawyer, right?! How to respond? Father constantly hires a lawyer because he is wealthy, but I am not, so I don't want to hire a lawyer... ***lawyer's letter and ruling removed by moderator, due to privacy sensitive information*** Kind regards,

Lawyer

The best thing to do is either approach a mediator together with your ex, or you can call in the help of your own lawyer. If you are not wealthy and also have a low income, you can use a government-funded lawyer. I advise you to use that, so that you can still hire a good lawyer for a low fee.