Distributing a home without agreements?

Questioner

The situation at home is becoming untenable, I feel like Cinderella and am restricted in everything, I feel used, and am only good for fixing things up at home and my boyfriend does not think it is necessary to support me. I am being criticized, put down and kicked out of everything. We bought a house together last January and share the mortgage. There is no cohabitation contract or registered partnership. There are also no children on my side. I want to go my own way and have the house sold because he cannot bear that financial burden alone and neither can I. Almost everything in the house is mine, but I think he is going to be very difficult, because without me he is absolutely nobody. I arrange everything, have to think for everyone and always have to solve everything. I also helped to solve his financial problems in order to invest my own hard-earned money. I also help pay for his children because our income is deposited into a joint account. My mother helped us financially with the purchase of the house. She also gets 7500 from us together. The house has surplus value and since we moved in, a lot has been renovated and we have worked on making our house more sustainable. I am at my wits' end because I want to get out of this situation. Talking doesn't help, everything I say is nullified anyway. I want to have everything arranged properly for myself.

Lawyer

Would you like to call 0800 822 4433 (Divorce Shop) for a no-obligation consultation? Then you can discuss the situation with us and we can see if we can take any follow-up steps.