How to stop ex men from threatening?

Questioner

In 2018 I divorced my ex. My son was 1 year old at the time. Given the age of my son (then and now), contact with my ex is essential. The contact regarding care is difficult, but eventually, with perseverance, I often manage to arrange things for my son so that he does not experience any inconvenience. However, I am confronted daily with emails and phone calls (I have already blocked the app), in which I am belittled as a person and as a mother. It is bullying, of which my son ultimately suffers. It concerns matters such as withdrawing an earlier agreement for a holiday, not being able to bring my son half an hour earlier so that we can go to the theatre, or him being able to go with his friends (if they are going to do something fun). I keep hearing on the phone that I am a bad mother, that I have to be careful, otherwise he will take legal action and 'things could turn out badly for me'. Now that I write it down, it sounds very childish, but hearing all kinds of comments and threats on a daily basis (you can't think of anything that crazy). And/or not being able to ask a simple question in the interest of my son, without having to negotiate first, is not okay. It limits me enormously as a person to be able to relax, enjoy my son and look forward to nice things together, which may be thwarted by his father. Everything is neatly recorded in a covenant/parenting plan, he colors exactly within the lines of this, which makes it difficult to point out anything to him.

Lawyer

If you are experiencing stalking by your ex, it is wise to take the following steps: Collect evidence: for example, keep track of emails, messages, telephone conversations and any witnesses. Contacting the police: Report the stalking to the police and provide them with the evidence you have collected. Filing a complaint: You can file a complaint with the police or with the court. Obtaining a Restrictive Measures Order: You can obtain a Restrictive Measures Order, which prohibits your ex from contacting or approaching you. Taking legal action: You may also consider filing a civil lawsuit for damages or protection. It is wise to seek legal assistance in taking these steps. An attorney can help you gather evidence, draft charges, and obtain restraining orders.