Consequences of marrying a friend from Sri Lanka?

Questioner

I want to marry my boyfriend from Sri Lanka. We have known each other for more than 12 years. However, we have never lived together but we spent my holidays there together. If I marry him, what do I have to take into account? Thinking about different pay scale, taxes, insurance, pension. Am I running any risks if it turns out not to work out after a while? (I have already experienced two divorces). How long could it take before he can come to the Netherlands and what visas does he need?

Lawyer

If you are planning to marry your Sri Lankan boyfriend, there are several aspects that you need to consider. Here are some important points to consider: 1. Legal requirements: Inform yourself about the legal requirements for marriage in the Netherlands. This includes obtaining the correct documents, such as a birth certificate, a declaration of unmarried status and any other required documents. 2. Residence permit: If you want your spouse to come to the Netherlands and stay there, he may need to apply for a residence permit. There are different types of visas and procedures depending on the situation, for example a marriage visa or a family migration visa. It is advisable to contact the Dutch Immigration and Naturalization Service (IND) for specific information and guidance. 3. Financial aspects: Marrying someone from another country can have financial implications. You may have to take into account differences in salary scales, taxes, insurance and pensions. It is wise to seek advice from a financial advisor or tax expert to understand these aspects and any consequences for your personal situation. 4. Risks and divorce: As with any relationship, there is a risk that the marriage will not work out in the future. If you have already been through two divorces, it is understandable that you have concerns. It is important to communicate openly with your partner about your expectations, values, and goals for the future. Also consider creating a prenuptial agreement to address financial issues in the event of a divorce. The duration of the process to bring your partner to the Netherlands can vary depending on the specific circumstances and the visa route chosen. It can take some time to gather all the necessary documents and go through the required procedures. It is advisable to contact the IND for an estimate of the processing time and to ask which visas your partner needs.